Retelling stories to
calm my toddler
Phoenix loves Peppa Pig. Mommy loves Peppa Pig. We all love Peppa
Pig.
Peppa Pig, a gift from Auntie Lisa |
Several months ago if you asked what the number on viewed
video on a tablet for Phoenix was there would have been no hesitation in my
answer, it would have been Dora and Diego. She was in love with them. However,
then she was introduced to Peppa Pig. I love Peppa Pig. For one, Peppa Pig
doesn’t spend the entire episode yelling instead of talking. The second reason
is that Peppa Pig is a sassy little pig, and entertaining for me as well as
Phoenix. Recently I have started using Phoenix’s love for Peppa in my favor,
especially her favorite episode: “Thunderstorm”.
Case in point: Last night.
Winters in Hawaii are much more mild than winters is most of
the other 50 states, especially compared to, let’s say, Alaska. However, our
house gets down to a cool 55 at night, and without central heating, that is
cold. In particular, it is cold for Phoenix. During the warmer summer nights
when she wakes up cold at night she covers herself up and goes back to sleep.
The problem with the winter is that we use much heavier blankets and it is
harder for her to cover herself back up. Last night she had a break down
because she couldn’t get the blankets back onto herself and her arms and legs
were too cold for her to sleep.
This left me with a cold, tired, mostly asleep 2-year-old.
Not a great combo. She doesn’t do well when woken up from her naps, so waking
her in the middle of the night is torture. By the time I got her untangled and
changed her crying had gotten to a point that I would consider her distraught
and inconsolable. No amount of sooth speaking or cuddling calmed her, and so I
launched into a whispered story telling of Peppa Pig and the Thunderstorm.
Me: “One day Peppa Pig and her little brother George went to
the garden to have a picnic. After a little while Mommy Pig called them to the
house because it was going to rain. When Peppa got to the house Mommy asked if they remembered their toys. Oh, no! Who did Peppa forget?” Heavy crying instantly
stops, and becomes whimpers and sniffles.
Phoenix (In the tiniest of whispers): “Teddy”
Me: “That’s right, Peppa forgot Teddy in the garden. Who
will go get Teddy?”
Phoenix (Still barely a whisper, but with no tears): “Daddy Pig
get Teddy.”
Me: “That’s right, Daddy Pig went to get Teddy. What
happened when Daddy Pig got Teddy?”
Phoenix (A little louder): “Daddy Pig all wet!”
Me: “That’s right, Daddy Pig got all wet because it started
raining. When he got inside what did
Mommy and Peppa do?”
Phoenix: “Use towels, dry them off.”
And so it continued till we got to the end of the story:
Me: “And then the rain stopped and what did Peppa do?”
Phoenix (in her regular voice): “Jump in muddy puddles!”
What came next was most important to me. She was able to
tell me why she had been so upset. In a very loud voice she said “It’s dark!”
To which I responded: “Yes, it is dark, because it is still sleeping time.” She
readily accepted this answer and rolled over and went to back sleep.
Sleeping in Mommy's bed is the best. |
The storytelling took less than five minutes, and for
Phoenix, it is the best method of calming her down. Other methods I have used
sometimes take more than twenty minutes! Now it is a little after 9 a.m., and
she is finally waking up. Today we will be talking about Peppa Pig and The
Museum.
That's awesome! My kids love peppa pig, too! It's their favorite! I'll have to remember this calm down trick next time my kiddos are upset!
ReplyDeleteI was surprised it worked, but also thrilled. I have done the retesting with her a thousand times, but never when she was upset.
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